Friday, August 30, 2013

Finding Happy

How do you find "Happy"?


hap·py

[hap-ee]
adjective, hap·pi·er, hap·pi·est.
1.delighted, pleased, or glad, as over a particular thing.
2. characterized by or indicative of pleasure, contentment, or joy.

When I think of "Happy" I equate it to delight, contentment, and joy. I think of myself as a happy person who finds joy in the adventure that is life. 

But how do you find "Happy"?  

The most important thing that I've learned in life, so far, is that YOU are the only person who has the power to find your own happy. Sure, you can feel happy with someone but they can never make happiness for you. And you sure as hell should never give anyone the power to cause you to be unhappy. Each person needs to take responsibility for their own life and happiness. And only when you do can you successfully find happiness in life and with other people. Hard lesson but one worth taking to heart.

If you are always waiting on someone else you will never do anything and you sure as heck won't find Happy. Now get out there and do! :D

 

Thursday, August 29, 2013

Jubilation

ju·bi·la·tion

[joo-buh-ley-shuhn]
noun 1. a feeling of joy or exultation

You make me smile. 

Catching Fish

There are plenty of fish in the sea... But where is this proverbial sea?

By now we are all aware that I have been "fishing" in the online dating pool for some time. And by "some time" I mean 2 months. Man, it feels like FOREVER! :) Where has it gotten me in that time?

First, it's gotten me frustrated. I mean, I'm a super social butterfly here with no one to talk to! Why? Because online dating has changed over the years. This isn't my first time fishing the choppy seas. Let's hop into the wayback machine and have a look at online dating in 1997. Yeah, I said 1997.

1997 - Online dating consisted of Yahoo! chat rooms & Messenger. You logged into a chat room and were instantly connected with real, live people who were looking to, surprise of surprises, CHAT! There were local chat rooms where you could find people who lived in your area. There were "romance" chat rooms where you could find people who, like you, were looking to meet people (some for dating, and some for other not so dating purposes). The point is, you were instant messaging (pre-texting era) and actually talking to people.

2013 - How is online dating different today? Glad you asked! Today, you log into a website, write up a profile (say anything you want about yourself, by the way), post a couple of pictures and start window shopping. So what happens next? You find a fish you think you may be interested in and you email him/her. And you wait. They are typically not online when you send your email and you are now waiting for them to get back to you. Before they do though, you can rest assured that they are going to read your profile and they are going to consider every perceived character flaw before they decide whether they will email you back. Gone are the days of a polite, "I'm not interested, thank you". No, it is browse and move on, not bothering to take a chance on anyone who doesn't fit a specific physical mold. People, you cannot tell whether you have something in common with someone based on a photograph. It cannot be done. Trust me. 

Let me ask you, when you walk into a social gathering and you see someone that you think you might have an interest in, do you hand them a profile and an email and then sit across the room waiting for them to get back to you or do you go up and say hello (maybe after rallying some courage) and start a conversation? Exactly! I truly believe that the advent of online dating websites has killed online dating. Leave, as quickly as you can, and head back to messaging, text, chat, social gatherings, and the like!

That being said, I am happy to report that after many fruitless emails, I have finally had the good fortune to encounter a fish that I am delighted to get to know. ;)

Stay tuned...

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

From Here

Where do I go from here?

View from Mt Jefferson, New Hampshire

So here I am, 2.5 weeks after "The Ride", 4.5 weeks after the BIG hike, and I'm wondering: Where do I go from here?

How does one pick the next goal - big or small - to head off on? Perhaps I've already done it. I'm riding in the Enbridge Ride to Conquer Cancer again in August 2104. But what about the hiking I want to do? Can I train to bike and still hike tall mountains?

I'm going hiking from here and I'll leave you with this: Anyone who dares to dream, manages to get out the front door and make it to the trail head of ANY mountain, is a real & serious hiker. It doesn't take fancy gear or require every weekend hikes. All it takes is a dream, a plan, proper preparation, and getting there. Sometimes we lose sight of the fact that we are all the the same. We all dream, we all aspire, we all strive, we are all the same.

See you in the hills...

Monday, August 26, 2013

VOTE Fleece on Earth


Martha Stewart American Made 2013 - Audience Choice

 


Welcome to Fleece On Earth!
Fleece On Earth has been outfitting stylish babies and kids in originally designed fun and functional clothing since 1989. All of our garments are designed and made in Vermont.

Voting closes September 13th - you can vote up to 6 times per day.

P.S. The wonderful owner of Fleece on Earth is my very beautiful sister, Bonny! <3



Monday, August 12, 2013

He Ran Away

Let's meet contestant number (I've lost count) ? in our quest for online social interaction!

He claims to be looking for someone to run away with though he spells it "runaway". Maybe he's confused between airplanes and women.. maybe.

Okay, what are his interests?
Red wine, Golf, Skiing, Family, Beaches, Cooking, Working out, Muscle cars, All kinds of music, Camping, Fishing, Traveling

Well rounded, athletic, likes travel and music. GREAT! We have several in common. Let's have a look at what he is looking for:

"Where do I start..I would like to apologize for the guys that wreck this site and put some much miss trust into you ladies..its made it very hard for me to find what I'm looking for.... (so he feels bad that men on online dating sites tend toward jerkiness - we can work with this. It isn't really up to him to apologize for all of guykind but okay.) this has been a long journey for me in the last 4 years in search of my soul mate... maybe I'm a little too picky after everything I've gone through in life.. (This should have thrown up a red flag immediately! At least he can admit that he is picky but what is he basing his pickiness on? Looks? Cause that is all you got to go on here on an online site, looks.) I think there's someone out there for everyone... and we're all looking for happiness, it might take a little longer then others such as myself...I'm a great guy once you get to know me...so don't judge me on my pics please!!... (He doesn't want to be judged by his pics. Okay, I can understand that. Does this mean that he won't be judging on pics? We'll see!)

About me????......I'm 6 foot tall, 215 lbs and take care of myself... (I don't really know what that means. Can he hold his own in a fight? Can he cook, clean, pay the bills? What does it mean?) i have my own house, 2 vehicles and have a good job that ables (I dont' think "ables" is a word) me to do the things I enjoy, of which I'd like to share with that special someone...My passions are muscle cars and cooking...and yes I'm looking for someone too travel with ..I've been asked many times why I'm on pof...I guess as we get older our friends get married and move away , I work lots, and don't do the bar scene anymore...so here I am ladies!!!

If you have any questions just ask :)"


Well, he has a good job, his grammar isn't the best, and he is looking for someone special. Oh, and a note, one of his pics says "August 2013...i know most girl don't like the no shirt pic...oh well lol"
It was a pretty good looking pic. Let's email him, shall we?

My email: "You shouldn't apologize for the other guys, they should grow up and apologize for themselves. And that no shirt pic is really great (I'd say hot but that is a little cliche). Anyway, just thought I'd drop by and say hello. So... Hello! :D"

At this point I'm going for the minimalist approach: say something nice, and see what we get. I mean, I think I've used up my best lines already.

He humored me with a very minimalist response: He ran away - nothing!

Casting the line in again...

Sunday, August 11, 2013

The Ride in Retrospect

OH - EM - GEE!

Let me take you on a pictorial (and written) journey of The Enbridge Ride to Conquer Cancer from August 10th - 11th, 2013 - 220km in 2 days. 

The day started at 5am looking EXACTLY where we left off the night before...
After a quick shower, I dressed in bike shorts, Enbridge Ride bike top, bike shoes, bike helmet (getting the theme here?), & fleece top and headed down for a 5:45am cab ride from The Carriage House Inn to the Delta Calgary South to catch a shuttle to the starting point - The Grey Eagle Casino & Bingo. 

The site parking lot was covered in tents - registration for 2014, breakfast, bike repair - porta-potties, and fairly empty of riders as most participants had not yet arrived by 6:30am when our shuttle dropped us off. The above is the stage and starting line as viewed from the gear truck parking lot. First stop was a quick run by the gear trucks to drop off whatever luggage we had brought with us - to be transported to the camp site 100 km away in Okotoks, Alberta. My gear went on the Black Dot truck.
As the sun continued to rise, the riders began to arrive.
And breakfast was served. One of the most disappointing aspects of this 2-day event was the food.
While the fruit was good (how can you really ruin fruit), the rest of the offerings were pretty sad. Breakfast burritos made with NASTY, dried out eggs, the vegetarian option of the southwest burrito had 1 bean and 1 kernal of corn in it. I mean, really? Most of the stuff on the table was pastries, breads, and other processed foods that I don't eat and wasn't about to start moments before a big ride.

One of my FAVORITE parts of the ride was the Boobs on Bikes group, dressed in pink. Even their motorcycles were dressed in pink! These guys and gals acted as safety directors on major turns, moral boosters at cheering stations, and all around fun and goofy folks. :)
With over 1600 riders, the bike storage lot was packed pre bike pick up. The only way to find your bike was to wander the rows until you located it. Fortunately my bike has wide blue stripes on the tires and stood out among the rest of the bikes.

Several bike shops were on hand for last minute tune-ups, air pressure checks, and chain oils. Both tires were a bit low so I waited my turn for that last blast of air before heading to opening ceremonies at 8am.

Plenty of bikes milling around as everyone began to arrive. Opening ceremonies consisted of the Canadian National Anthem, inspirational speeches by several cancer survivors, stats on the fund raising and ride count - we were 1655 riders who had raised $7.5 Million. Within minutes, we were all sobbing with joy & excitement, and overwhelmed with emotion.
Below is our lunch stop. We rode out of Calgary starting at about 9am and I'm sure it took over an hour to get the last rider out of the gate. The ride ran through some residential areas, funneled onto a narrow bike path, and then headed for the highway and Route 8. Map here. I didn't take any photos during this day other than lunch as I was pretty busy concentrating on the ride. The first 10 KM flew by in an instant once we hit the open road. Soon after the 10KM mark, there was a rider down on the side of the road, surrounded by other riders and crew. It was eery, knowing that someone was hurt so early. Within 2km, we passed a second rider down. The day suddenly felt ominous. How was it that riders were dropping so quickly? I never heard what happened with the first rider but the second was experiencing an elevated heart rate. While riding along the highway, the white line between shoulder and roadway was dotted with 3 foot tall orange cones. The intent was the keep the bikes to the right of them, but as we were riding in a pack, they posed quite a hazard as you couldn't see them until the rider in front of you swerved around them. I learned later that one biker was unfortunate enough to run into one, flip over the handlebars and break her leg.


The next 10km flew by as well and before I knew it, we were at the first of 4 rest stops. With the ride being 100km for the day, rest stops were to be spaced approx every 20km. This is about 1.5 hours of riding. On offer were sliced apples, sliced oranges, bagels with peanut butter, chips, cookies, crackers, Gatorade, water, and the all important porta-potties. I couldn't stomach much more than an apple with peanut butter and a couple of orange slices. My camelbak was loaded with Hammer Heed, Hammer Perpetuem, & Vanilla Protein so I was taking in calories as I rode. The next 40km was pretty much a blur as we made 1 more pit stop at about 42km in and headed off towards lunch.

By the lunch stop (#3), I was feeling sick to my stomach and had started cramping in my right inner thigh. I was forced to walk my bike up half of a rather large hill and couldn't wait to get to lunch for a break. Realizing that I wasn't taking in enough water, my plan was to stop for a 20 minute break and re-hydrate. I couldn't manage to get anything other than an orange down along with about 3 cups of water. Re-slathering on the sunblock, I headed out but was a bit concerned that the ride board indicated that we had ridden 60km but still had 50km to go. How could that be? My math said we had 40km to go in the 100km ride, how is it that the ride was suddenly 110km for the day?

Lunch was at the turnoff to RT 22 (The Cowboy Trail) and we would ride this road nearly the entire rest of the way until we picked up RT 7 around Black Diamond. Straight away after lunch we hit a big hill (all of the rest stops were at the bottom of the next big hill for some reason) and my left inner thigh decided to have a turn at cramping. I was frustrated and wanted to cry. I'd trained for this, I wanted to ride the entire ride and my body was rebeling. I made a deal with my body then and there. I'd drink more of the nasty sludge in the Camelbak if my legs agreed to stop cramping. They said it was a deal and so, after a bit more stretching and watering, I headed off again.

On and off throughout the day, my legs would threaten to cramp and I would remind them that I was drinking the sludge and they best keep up their end of the bargain. I think that the stretch from Lunch to the 4th and final break of the day was the roughest and at 30km between stops, the longest. Several times I felt done in. I was enjoying the ride but also burning under the sun, cramping, and mentally exhausted. I nearly cried every time I passed a mileage marker or a cheering station. Once I hit the 80km marker, I realized that I had ridden farther than I had trained for (I trained up to 75km at a stretch) and I felt a wonderful feeling of pride and accomplishment. And I still wanted to cry.

The final rest stop was in Black Diamond and I missed the ride board indicating how far we had come and how far was left to ride. Had I seen it, I would have read that I had ridden 90km so far and had another 28km to go. That's right, the first day was 118km from start to finish. How had no one told me this? Geesh!

However, the great thing was, knowing that I was in the last leg of the ride (and assuming I only had 20km to go), I picked up a 10th wind somewhere and flew the last 28km of the ride. The cloud cover rolled in, the day cooled, my bike grew wings, and I arrived at camp at 4:30pm. Mentally drained, I spent the first 15 minutes at camp dropping off my bike, locating my tent, and wiping away the tears that kept leaking down my cheeks. I DID IT! I rode 118km in 1 day and lived.

Above is the camp - rows upon rows of tents. I was in Tent C36 - each letter (A,B,C...) had at least 150 tents assigned to it so, as you can imagine, I was somewhere in the first third of the camp. Below is my specific tent, adorned with my camp towel. Tent mates were assigned at random (though  matching you with someone of your specific gender and close to your age) and I was paired up with Cody - a nice girl from the Calgary area. My first order of business, hitting the shower truck! That's right, a semi truck complete with 20 shower stalls and HOT water! Man did that feel awesome! Putting on my comfiest pants and t-shirt, I hobbled to dinner after my shower. The chicken and salad were good, the rice was dry, and the Oreo cookie ice cream sandwich was OM NOM NOM! :D

I am lucky enough to have an amazing client in Calgary who not only sponsored me in the ride but also offered to rescue me from camp and take me out to dinner. Now, I know what you are thinking - You just had dinner! But, 3 hours later, I was STARVING again so, it was nice to go for some "real" food. :) Don and his lovely fiance, Cecelia, picked me up in the parking lot and we went across the street to Original Joe's. Fish Tacos - OM NOM NOM NOM NOM! Though I will admit to nearly falling asleep at the table a couple of times. I guess 7.5 hours of biking will do that to you. Dropped back at camp by 9pm, I was ready to crash. I set the alarm for 5:45 (6am breakfast, 7am departure), chatted with Cody for about an hour and dropped off to sleep wrapped in my PJ's, Sweat pants, Fleece, Sweatshirt, and sleeping bag. Yeah, it was that cold out at night.

Day 2! Map here  - Breakfast was slightly better than the day before with scrambled pellet shaped eggs, juice, sausage (BLECH), and coffee. Packing my gear and dropping it off at the pink dot truck, I mixed my bag of sludge, located the lovely Gwen and the equally lovely Lynn (pictures later in the story), and we headed off. On Saturday we had started the ride together but had quickly lost each other in the crush of riders, each of us riding at our own speed. Gwen & Lynn had ridden into camp around 5:30pm the night before. This morning we were attempting to ride together for the day. Heading South out of town (check out the map above), we were greeted immediately by a HUGE hill. The image below was taken at the top of said hill which was at least a 15 minute ride from bottom to top. The mountains were on my right and it was a beautiful day!
Below is looking back towards the hill that I had just conquered. I figured it was a good time to hydrate (I was NOT having a repeat of yesterday and the cramping) and see if Gwen & Lynn were on their way. Being the first challenge of the day, the hill hadn't felt too bad. I was starting to wake up and it was still cool out at 7:15am. Who goes out riding at 7am anyway? Oh, I guess that would be 1600+ of us... Silly us! :)
Gwen soon joined me (see her smiling self below) and we waited for Lynn who had opted to hop on a sweep car to ride up the hill. She would be dropped off just up the road and we headed off again, this time downhill. The fantastic thing about riding up a huge hill is that there is (usually) a pretty big downhill on the other side. I was not disappointed as the downhill was loooooooong and the wind cooling. I usually grin all the way down a hill and this was no exception. And then... THEN, I came to the BIG downhill (the steepest drop on the ride so far) just before the right turn onto 2A that would take us West. I hunched over the handlebars, leaned forward, and flew down the hill, making it about 1/2 way up the matching incline on the other side before I had to start peddling again. The only thing I could think of as I flew down the hill was the scene in Hidalgo when Frank Hopkins tells Hidalgo " Let 'er buck.". It was amazing!
We soon turned onto 2A and headed West towards the "hills" that are the Canadian Rockies. The day was hazy but we could still see the mountains in the distance. Before I knew it, 20km had passed and I was at the first rest stop of the day. I reconnected with Lynn & Gwen who had decided that they would catch a ride from rest stop 1 to rest stop 2 as they were concerned with the time it would take to complete the ride and still be able to catch our bus back to Edmonton. It was scheduled to leave Calgary at 4:30pm.
Above is just as we headed off on another lovely downhill. The second day of riding was punctuated with HUGE uphills and HUGE downhills. More on that soon. I left the second rest stop and soon found myself back on route 22 (The Cowboy trail) though it was a different section than we had ridden yesterday until we reached Black Diamond and headed off on the same section that we had ridden the day before. Enjoy a couple pictures of the mountains below.
There were always riders within site along the route. Many times I would pass a rider only to be passed by them again later. I managed to ride within the middle third of the pack for the whole journey.
Aren't those hills pretty?
Heading north on 22, I soon found myself at the 2nd rest stop of the day in Turner Valley. There were bikes (and bikers) EVERYWHERE. See below.
Resting, watering, eating, and preparing to head out again.
Stopping briefly to refuel with orange slices and water, I gathered my dead tired bike (the red one below) and headed out for what was to be the LONGEST, HARDEST section of the ride so far. I didn't know it yet but there was a long stretch between rest stop 2 and Lunch. (Guess it is a good thing I missed the ride board again). Heading back along route 22, it was a little odd seeing scenery that looked familiar in an unfamiliar part of the country. This is the area that flooded back in June and pushed the ride out to August and the flood damage was evident in the river beds and roadways. Many times we rode around orange cones marking sections of road that had been undercut, had fallen in, and were still awaiting repair.
The ride between stop 2 and lunch is pretty much a blur. Not as drastic up and down hills as the first section of the ride was, but looooong. Though as we took the turn off of RT 22 and onto 274 Ave, we were met by the MEGA HILL OF DEATH! And the sad thing is, we didn't even know it was coming. This hill was long and steep, forcing me and many others off of our bikes. We had ridden over 60km already and I was looking forward to lunch. However, as I approached the lunch turn off (heading downhill to lunch and then doubling back uphill to continue on) I was greeted by traffic directors who were saying "Lunch to the right down the hill or 12 km to the next rest stop". Hmmmmm, I wasn't really hungry. I wasn't in the mood to ride downhill and them back uphill after lunch. Perhaps I would go on the next 12km and stop at the 4th rest stop before taking the last stretch into Calgary. Yup! That is what I would do. Mounting my bike again, I headed up the next section of hill.

And.... pretty soon I dismounted again as the hill kept going and going and going and going and going at a pretty steep angle. About 15 minutes later... I was finally at the top of the hill. My reward? The biggest, steepest, longest downhill ride EVER! We were riding on a back road with no shoulders, very little traffic, several very rough patches, and beautiful scenery. There were rolling hills, a buffalo farm, beautiful blue sky, and plenty of sunshine. Before I knew it, I was approaching Rest stop 4 (the final one of the day before the finish). See pic below.
During the previous 40km of the ride, I'd noticed that my gears were becoming harder to shift. I was struggling to get the chain onto the largest front cog, sometimes having to press and hold the gear shift for some time before the chain would catch and move over. I brought the bike to the repair tent at the above stop and had a quick adjustment, chain lube, and checkup. Everything worked so much better after it was tweaked! I also met up with Gwen & Lynn again at this stop and we rode out together towards the finish, 20km away in Calgary. We managed to stay fairly well together for the next 10km or so.

What a joy it was to crest a hill and see THIS! If you look off in the distance, you can see the city of Calgary!!!!! I was OVERJOYED! (See above and below) I was nearly there! The ride was dotted with encouraging signs and a couple of my favorites were:

"Pedal it like you stole it"
"You look great in spandex"
"You've got this" - Made me feel like my favorite Miss Crunchy Frogs was there with me! 
"Chuck Norris never rode his bike 200 km" - Though we all agreed that he either carried or kicked his bike 200 km at least.

The last 20km were a blur. We rode along 37 St. NW towards Calgary on fairly flat and downhill stretches. As we reached the city, we took a quick ride on highway, and then turned into the Weaselhead Natural Area which is a wide bike & pedestrian trail. Other than 1 HUGE hill, it was beautiful! Leaving the Weaselhead and the bike trail, we entered a neighborhood. The roads were wide and smooth and nearly car free. And... I lost my bike chain. It fell off to the outside of the gears, dangling on the peddle shaft. I took one look at my bike, asked it "Really? Really!!!? You fall apart NOW???!!?", re-attached the chain and headed out again. Shortly I reached the final stretch only to find it was under construction and the road had been chewed up and rutted in preparation for new tar to be laid down. It wasn't a bad ride, just bumpy.

Knowing that the end was so close, I picked up a second (8th? 10th?) wind and zipped along towards the Eagle Casino & Bingo. I couldn't wait to be done!!! I was grinning a HUGE grin the rest of the ride. As I approached the end point, a finish chute was set up for us to ride through and it was lined with HUNDREDS of cheering spectators. I didn't know it at at the time but a camera was set up to record riders as they came into the chute and display them on the jumbotron screen at the finish. There was also an announcer on the mic welcoming us in by name. It was the most incredible feeling to ride in to all of the cheering, hollering, and celebrating. People were EVERYWHERE, cheering on riders, visiting, unwinding, eating, and what an air of festivity!

Here are Gwen (left) and Lynn (right) riding in! :)
As soon as I crossed the line, I rode straight to the bike trailer (Below) and handed my bike over to these nice young men who loaded her up for the ride back to Edmonton. After 2 days - 15 hours total in the saddle - and 220 km, I was DONE with the bike for a while.
Dinner was pulled pork, cole slaw, pickles, tomatoes, and water, water & more water! :) After dinner we located our gear truck, dug out clean (non bike) clothes, and got comfy for the ride home. Our bus was air conditioned and we had the best time waiting for an hour as the remaining riders came in. We often jumped off the bus to cheer in riders. Each time a new finisher joined us on the bus, they were greeted by a LOUD cheer and we eventually began to chant "speech, speech, speech" as they made their wait to their seats. A couple of riders took up the challenge and we had some funny speeches about spandex, bikes, being done, and the ride.

The big question now: Will I do it again. Well, I'm already discussing with Sarah and Ashley about putting together a team for next year. I haven't taken the step of actually signing up yet but.. I'm oh so close.. Stay tuned!


 Gwen after the ride.
 
 Lynn after the ride.

Sarah after the ride.

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Kicking A$$

I kicked a$$ today. No other way to put it. BUT, I would never have been able to do it without the amazing people who have supported me the whole way. I am truly a very blessed girl to have the love and support of all of you.
The image is of lunch today, 60km into a 118km day. I was sick to my stomach and miserable. And then I remembered you - everyone who has been pulling for me.
THANK YOU!!!! I love you all.

Friday, August 9, 2013

The Night Before

I'm sitting here in Calgary, thinking back over the day before my big ride. I'll be up at 5am to head to the starting point for breakfast and opening ceremonies. But for now, here is the recap:
7:31am - wake up call from my wonderful mom :)
9:00am - finally rolled out of bed, scrambled up some eggs, showered, started laundry, and began packing.
12:30pm - picked up the required sunblock, gassed up the car, and wrapped up the packing.
2:30pm - loaded the Dingo.
3:00pm - painted my nails with custom racing stripes (I'm sure it will make me ride faster)
4:15pm - hit the road for Edmonton.
5:07pm - loaded the bike onto the mega truck.
5:32pm - hopped on the people bus.
6:13pm - bus rolled out of Edmonton, headed for Red Deer to pick up additional riders.
8:02pm - picked up riders, pit stop (restroom on bus was out of order).
8:13pm - bus headed out towards Calgary.
9:34pm - arrived at Calgary and walked 3 city blocks to my hotel (event hotel messed up my booking so I'm down the road.
10:00pm - arrived at my room and discovered odd and slightly scary towel sculpture on bed.
10:15pm - OMNOMNOMing on tasty pasta.
10:37pm - passing out.

See you all in the morning!!!









The Day Before

Bike? Check!
Bell? Check!
Helmet with tracking chip? Check!
Bike name plates affixed? Check!
Nutrients mixed and bagged? Check!
Laundry washed and bike & camp clothes packed? Check!
New hotel booked because the original hotel failed miserably on booking the right date? Check!
Camping gear packed? Check!
Camelbak assembled and packed with rain gear and fleece? Check!
Last minute items picked up and packed? Check!
Directions printed for shuttle stop? Check!
Nails painted in several colors? Check!
Chocolate packed for after ride? Check!
Truck packed with all of the above? Check!!!

Thursday, August 8, 2013

2 (again)

Once again 2 days away from "THE RIDE". Here is the previous 2 post. The ride was postponed due to flooding in Calgary just 1.5 days before it was scheduled to happen back in June.

Today I am a mix of nervous, excited, and I don't know what...

The bike is ready.
The Fundraising is done (but you can still donate).
The gear is hours away from being packed
I am 1 day from taking a bus out of Edmonton for Calgary

AAAAAAHHHHHHHHH! <---- that is sorta how I feel. :D



Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Return to "Normal"

nor·mal

[nawr-muhl] 
adjective
1. conforming to the standard or the common type; usual; not abnormal; regular; natural.
 
 But what is "normal"? 
 
I recently went home to visit family and friends in New Hampshire, Maine, Vermont, and Chicago but it didn't feel like home. Now I've come back to Alberta and this doesn't feel like home either. Neither place feels normal. 
 
Perhaps after "The Ride" is done, the flower garden is weeded, and my schedule begins to get back in line...
 
 

Sunday, August 4, 2013

The Beach

Sometimes you just need to spend a day at the beach.


My favorite beach is Short Sands Beach in York, Maine. I enjoy this beach more for the nostalgia that it creates than for anything else. In fact, it has become a terrible beach to swim at or walk on as Hurricane Sandy has removed most of the sand and left sharp rocks exposed on the shoreline. It is now a 15 minute, pain laden process to get out into the water for a swim. But we do it anyway because it is all part of what we are at this beach for.

Let me take you back in time. In the late 1970's, our family was living in Concord, NH. I'm not sure how we found Short Sands Beach but we did and thus began a family tradition. Each summer my mom would pack up a cooler with lunch, drinks, & snacks, and bundle the 3 of  us girls into the car with our swimsuits, blanket, towels, frisbees, and other general beach gear, and head to York, Maine for the day. We didn't usually make this trip more than once or twice a summer as it was an hour and a half drive from Concord to York.

Upon arrival, we would feed the meter with quarters and head down to the sand to locate the perfect spot to set up for the day. Blanket & towels arranged and cooler settled, we were off to the water. The rules were, don't go in past your armpits, stay together, and try to remain in a direct line with the blanket (or as close as possible so Mom could find us). Hours of swimming, splashing, body surfing, seaglass hunting, and shell collecting awaited us!

My mom was the best packed lunch maker ever! She didn't pack pre-made peanut butter and jelly. No, she would pack all the fixings for BLT's so that we could build our own at lunchtime. There were always chips, veggies, fruit, and some form of juice in the orange tupperware juice pitcher. Yeah, you know the one, with the button on the top of the lid. Our favorite juice was what has recently become known in our family as Nonna Juice (because my Mom is now Nonna and she always makes it) - Grape juice mixed with Lemonade.

After lunch there was THE GOLDENROD! This is an old fashion restaurant, soda/ice cream bar, and TAFFY FACTORY right on the beach! This is the magic of Short Sands Beach. The taffy is made in the window. You can watch the process from the syrup cooking in the copper kettles all the way through cooling, flavoring, stretching, and wrapping. And of course, you can then go in and buy a box! The smell is amazing outside the plate glass windows as you watch the process. Even now, 35 years later, I am in love with the smell and watching the taffy be made.

Flash forward to 1992 - I took my son for his first trip to York Beach and made it a tradition that we go at least once a year. It soon became a frequent destination when we moved to the Seacoast area in 1994. I have pictures of Matthew eating ice cream, licking giant lollipops, carrying his younger cousins on his shoulders to see the taffy being made, playing on the playground, and posing in the infamous Dead Bear Shirt. It is safe to say that he is as much in love with the memories as I am. My recent Facebook post while home on vacation indicated I was headed to the beach and taffy. His response: "BRING ME ALL THE TAFFYS". Needless to say, he received a 2lb box on my way through Chicago. <3

My last trip to Short Sands Beach was today, with my Mom. It is the last day of my vacation in NH and I couldn't think of anything I would rather do than sit on the beach, soak up the sun, splash in the waves, visit the shops, and have a bite to eat with my Mom. This has been the most relaxing day of my entire visit and I enjoyed every second of it.